But I do need to be honest, not all days are rainbows and unicorns and well frankly, a lot of the time it's a mask that I wear that says "look, I'm not sick- sad or scared, i'm happy, excited and strong!!"
The past few weeks have been a little rough, not having my normal energy, dealing with some vision issues, and frankly just getting frustrated knowing that I am mentally able to do things, but physically my body has been shutting down... and well, it's a downer.
Now I don't say this to get sympathy, but I also don't want to sugarcoat what having an auto-immune disease looks like. A lot of the times when I share things I show the positives and the growth, but it's worth it to take a minute and feel the stuff that scares you.
I am a healthy individual and most of my "symptoms" could be met with "Oh, well I've had that before" or "Maybe you just need to drink more water" but the reality of it is that every little symptom that I feel needs to be noted... is this new? is this different? should I tell my doctor? does this mean it's progressing? am I just tired? stressed? ... the list goes on, and it's exhausting.
I've done a really good job keeping all of those thoughts in my head, laughing off the tingling in my legs, the dizziness I feel daily "oh maybe I should stop drinking all that coffee!! LOLLOL" It's a job in itself to keep the scary thoughts where they belong... in the back of my head.
There is something to be said about always being positive, you never deal with the negatives - you learn to numb (no MS pun intended here) yourself to anything that might be hard to deal with.
In the first week of October I will be going in for some scans and tests (thought I was going to get away with no testing this year.... but that was a lie) Here's a picture of Verona and I waiting for the doctor today.
I also want to share a book that I just finished called "29 Gifts: How a Month of Giving Can Change your Life" It was a really good read on an interesting way to change your mindset on things. The woman who wrote the book was diagnosed with MS and was really down on herself about the whole ordeal. A friend of hers suggested that she gives 29 gifts in 29 days. She learns the act of giving, along with the act of receiving and how simple thing can change your entire outlook on the world.
I'm lucky in that I was naturally given the glass half full mentality (Thanks Mom and Dad) its what keeps me strong and not a basket case... but i'm also learning that it's okay to let your guard down sometimes. You only get stronger if you deal with the hard stuff.
